Why families Are Falling Apart?

Why families are falling apart? The foundations of the human family are rooted right in the first beginning when God created Adam and Eve. But that they will be problems in the future families was shown by lack of trust ,betrayal and outright change of the status of the family.

The family today is still be deviled in a myriad of challenges ranging from infidelity , mistrust and abusive tendencies. Yet the question remains on, Why families are falling apart at a time when we thought the families unity of purpose are the ideal models of living together.

Romance and courtship usually at first sight build up to real marriages from people who at first did not know each other but gradually bonded by three words ,” I love you” and from there we seen mansions and children.The most worrying part and probable the foundation of the falling apart is the sudden loss of interest in the relationship. Spouses start to feel much better away from the other ,each of us becomes repulsive . If this continues each of us seeks a solution everywhere. A man/woman opts for a shoulder to cry on and this a step spouse.

This is against civilized norms that glorify one man one wife tradition . Apart from getting diseases , families will not thrive when there parallel structures and sex networks that run across the home. The seeds of family violence have already been sown .That is why emotional abuse cascades into violent crime and these are consequences of failing to get professional help when the family is in jeopardy.

In our society gruesome stories of spouses murdering each other in the bedroom , sometimes the woman can be married more than once or her husband can bear children with another woman next door. At times working spouses date their bosses and the affair ultimately becomes public. The media has played a part through awareness creation and some of the ensuing drama is quite entertaining although no one will be laughing.This is typical dead end of family tragic stories mostly because of soul tying .

N.B Issues of the heart matters . There healing takes time but time is the best healer. Lets value ,love one another as spouses . Learn to share in tolerant family environment.To safegurd your family you need God. Prayer of unity and in agreement as spouses will catapult your family from glory to glory.Shalom and peace be unto your families.

Enos Denhere
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Prophet Magaya warm heartfelt on Madoma People

Life is in categories/levels .There are people who are born with
silver platter in there mouth, others struggle to get a single meal a
day . The Doma or vaDoma (singular muDoma), also known as Dema, are a
tribe living in the Kanyemba region in the north of Zimbabwe,
especially in the Urungwe and Sipolilo districts around the basins of
Mwazamutanda River, a tributary of the Zambezi River Valley. They are
the only traditional hunter-gatherers indigenous to Zimbabwe and
famous for the inherited ectrodactyly existing among some vaDoma

The leader of PHD ministries based in Harare , Walter Magaya has come
up with an initiative of inheriting all the Madoma people as way of
bringing light to them as he will build roads,building decent homes
,feeding them,clothes them etc. I salute the initiative seems powerful
as no one ever bothered in upgrading the living standards of them.
They were always regarded as primitive people.Historically, the vaDoma
chiefly dwelt in the mountains, living a largely nomadic lifestyle of
hunting, fishing, trapping, honey hunting, and gathering wild fruits
and roots. Prior to the European colonization of Africa, the vaDoma
also resisted incorporation into the Korekore Shona kingdom of
Mutapa.The mountain homeland of the vaDoma has now become the Chewore
Safari Area. In recent years, vaDoma have been threatened by game
rangers due to a crackdown on poaching. Many abandoned their
hunter-gatherer lifestyle and moved to the lowlands. Today, though
they have little contact with the majority populace, many vaDoma
families live settled lives as semi-foragers, building houses on
wooden platforms to avoid predators. During rainfall, they cover the
shelters with thatching. VaDoma are also reluctant to wear textile

I believe as a nation if you are in better state of finance. Don’t be
selfish ; let’s upgrade the livelihood of our fellow citizens. I
appreciate the same spirit which gave Magaya the warm heartfelt
towards Madoma people.Keep it up , Prophet Magaya. What is good , we
celebrate ? We have many sons and daughters of the soil who are
light of life to other communities .Keep it up.The betterment of
Zimbabwe is in us as citizens.

Enos Denhere
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The Bible gives us a lot of historical evidence of men and women who did great they were people like us. People like Abraham ,Gideon , Moses, Samson, Rebecca ,Daniel,Elijah and they were man like us yet they did greater works they did. If we are to look in the bible they are labelled as ELDERS OF THE CHURCH,MAN OF FAITH. Hebrews11verse2-5,7-11 KJV ; 2 For by it the elders obtained a good report.3 Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.4 By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts: and by it he being dead yet speaketh.5 By faith Enoch was translated that he should not see death; and was not found, because God had translated him: for before his translation he had this testimony, that he pleased God.7 By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faith. 8 By faith Abraham, when he was called to go out into a place which he should after receive for an inheritance, obeyed; and he went out, not knowing whither he went. 9 By faith he sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise:10 For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God.11 Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful who had promised.

There is an African proverb that is dear to my heart. It says ,”What an elder sees seating a young man cannot see even if he climbs the tallest tree or mountain.” Another African proverb in Ndebele langauge says ,”Indlela ibuzwa kwabaphambili ( Don’t hesitate to ask the elders no matter your qualifications they once walked the same path you are taking). There is wisdom and things to learn from those have gone ahead of us in ministry. We have unsung African heroes of faith who trail blazed the way for us modern preachers.We have the like of Apostle J.A Babalola , he was a man mightly used by God to ignite the fire of the first Christian revival in Nigeria in the nineteen thirties. Brother J.A. Babalola and his prayer team entered forbidden forests , silenced demons that demanded worship , paralysed deeply rooted ,anti gospel activities . Sometimes , beginning from the highest places they emptied hospitals by the healing power of the Lord Jesus Christ , rendered witch doctors jobless and started the first indigenous Holy Ghost filled church in Nigeria. My worry is that we don’t seem to know about the African Diaspora founding fathers of faith.They dug the foundation for us . It was hard to penetrate with the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ into four corners of Africa. Who remembers the likes of Rev. Nicholas Bhekinkosi Hepworth Bhengu was born on September 5, 1909 at Entumeni, KwaZulu-Natal. Known as “Manotsha”, “Papakho”, “uMkhulu” or “uKhehla” by his converts, he was the Founder of the Africa Back to God Crusade (Assemblies of God) in the 1950s. Bhengu was an evangelist, a teacher of the word, and a pastor. Through his ministry a very large congregation was built up in the Eastern Cape, KwaZulu-Natal, and the rest of South Africa together with the neighboring countries. Bhengu emphasised holiness and the fear of God, among other things. He taught his church to be self-sustaining and he also encouraged material independence through hand work. Bhengu died in 1985. Richard Ngidi, was a giant of the Apostolic Faith Mission. He mentored and inspired many servants of God, the likes of Moruti Isaiah Tshukudu, Moruti Henry Diya, Moruti Ralekholela, Moruti Agrippa Khathide,Moruti Michael Kodisang and many more. NB! He walked mightily with God!.He was an evangelist populary known as miracle worker as he was mightly used on miracles and healing.

The list is endless the likes of Frank Chikane former associate of Renhard Bonke ,Andrew Watawunashe ,Morgan Sengwayo,Mwatha Samuel Kang’ethe ,Joe Kayo,Professor Ezekiel Handinawangu Guti is the founder of Zimbabwe Assemblies of God Africa (ZAOGA), a Pentecostal church founded on 12 May 1960. ZAOGA is also known internationally as Forward in Faith Ministries International (FIFMI) headquartered in Waterfalls, Harare, Zimbabwe.Dr Guti was born on May 5, 1923 in Ngaone, Chipinge, Manicaland Province, Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe). To date, the church has been established in over 125 nations, with over 2,000 churches in Southern Africa[citation needed]. Dr Guti has ministered for over 60 years and spoken in many different countries, colleges and universities. He has founded seven Bible colleges named Africa MultiNation For Christ College (AMFCC), with three in Zimbabwe, two in Mozambique, one in Zambia and one in Ghana. He has also founded various ministries including F.I.F. Children’s Home, Africa Christian Business Fellowship, and Gracious Women’s Fellowship.He has written over 69 books on his teachings. He is married to Eunor Guti, the first female Archbishop in Zimbabwe, who is gifted in healing, deliverance and evangelism, and consistently supports Dr Guti in preaching the Gospel of Christ to millions worldwide. Josiah Olufemi Akindayomi was the founder and first general overseer of what is today known as the Redeemed Christian Church of God. The church, today acclaimed as the fastest growing Pentecostal church in the world, started in 1947 as an independent prayer fellowship, the Glory of God Fellowship. This group blossomed into the Redeemed Christian Church of God in 1952. Josiah was born in 1909 into the Akindayomi family in Ondo State, Nigeria. From early childhood Josiah’s parents noticed unusual things about him. When he was sick, alledgedly his sickness, that usually defied traditional medecin-the most common treatment for sickness in those days-would abate and subsequently disappear once he was bathed with ordinary water. Josiah himself also had an inkling that he was different, for although he grew up in an environment where the worship of Ogun (the Yoruba divinity of iron and war) was prevalent, he was aware of the existence of a greater power and yearned to know the true God who created the earth and everyone in it. Apostle Peter Newman Anim, formerly known as Kwaku Anim Mensah (also known as Kwaku Manasseh) was born on 4 February 1890 to Mr. Simon Appiagyei and Madam Hannah Lartebea of Boso in the Volta Region of Ghana.The founder of Christ Apostolic Church . He was operating in the gifts of healing and all his teachings were about holiness and salvation. Benson Idawosa Born to non-Christian parents in a predominantly non-Christian community, he was rejected by his father, John, for being frail and sickly. He constantly had fainting spells as a child, and on one of his spells, his mother, Sarah, abandoned him at a rubbish heap presuming him dead. Hours later, he came to, and began wailing and was rescued by his mother. He grew up in a poor household. Like most of the surrounding houses, his family home was a mud house. This reality denied him access to education until he was fourteen years old, when he was able to attend school.As a youth, he got converted to Christianity by a certain Pastor Okpo, and joined his fledgling congregation as one of its first members. He was very active in evangelizing, seeing many come to Christianity. After experiencing a revelation from God calling him into ministry, he began to conduct outreaches from village to village, before establishing his church in a store in Benin City. By 1971, he had established churches all over Nigeria and Ghana. Known for his boldness, power and prosperity-based preaching, as well as an enormous faith in the supernatural, he was instrumental to the strong wave of revival in Christianity and marked conversions from animism that occurred between the 1970s and 1990s in Nigeria. He is regarded by Christians folks as the father of Pentecostalism in Nigeria, and was the founding President of the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN). Many prominent Nigerian pastors like Ayo Oritsejafor (former President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN)), David Oyedepo, Felix Omobude, Fred Addo, Bishop Mike Okonkwo and Chris Oyakhilome were his protégés.

They may look “old fashioned” to some people . However , there is a lot to learn from them. Never despise the rags of the old man. These elderly men and women of God have been pioneers. They paid the price,sacrificed and preached the gospel under very harsh conditions long before some of us were not born or born again.They were not motivated by fame or material gain. They were motivated to depopulate the dark world and making sure everyone will go to heaven . Help me to celebrate the founding fathers of faith in Africa. Your legacy will live till eternity.

ENOS DENHERE IS A Motivational Speaker ,Nation Builder AND PAN AFRICANIST.
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You Need Barrier Breaker Mindset.

You need a barrier breaker mindset. Sometimes situations can be so stubborn to the extend of accepting them as part of life. You are born to succeed. If others are making it in life . It’s a sign which shows that you will can make it. Your present situation should not determine your future .If you want to succeed in your life, remember this phrase: That past does not equal the future. Because you failed yesterday, or all day today, or a moment ago, or for the last six months, the last 16 years, or the last 50 years of your life, doesn’t mean anything . What you need is the stamina ? Stamina comes from hearing other people success stories? It will boost the zeal to focus. As you focus make sure barriers will not limit your imagination to your journey of success.Be prepared to be a barrier breaker . A barrier breaker is not limited by political,economical and geographical boundaries . He/She will utilize the minds /resources surrounding him/her. If you want to break the barrier don’t depend on negative information you are hearing . Let principles be your guidelines . Equip yourself with good and constructive information. Wisdom is the magnet to your desired goal. A barrier breaker will fight and never give up until he/she arrives to that destination .

As a barrier breaker understand this- “Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don’t complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don’t bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!” – Bob Marley . Don’t dilute your mind with negative thinking about your life . Fight that negative mind and have faith on yourself . Don’t build a web of evil imagination in your mindset . Think positive about who you are. You are born to succeed . Don’t let the background of your family foundation hinder you . Don’t let past mistakes be a stumbling block. Change the mindset now . Those were the things of the past .The future is in your hands. The most battle is in mindset . Renew your mindset and adjust in line with goals you want to achieve . Read the stories of the people who went through water and fire but at last they made it. The reading will boost the genes of staying power on your dreams.

A barrier breaker works on his/her character . He /she is an exemplary in his/her community.Everyone will admire to be like him/her in the neighborhood where they live . Don’t be mood but be someone of integrity . Being mood always can chase away your destiny helpers. You remain glued to where you going no matter the shaking of the matters of the life. Your character will never be altered .You will remain steadfast. Character is very important in decision making . As most people vet you through character .Your character can create a climb up/down fall. It’s always good to be on your best in terms of character. What have you lost because of anger and bad mouthing ? Some of you when you are angry you are uncontrollable .You will do like a locust which will break its all legs and it will be difficult for it to fly . As a barrier breaker remember the sober mind will cause to fly to your desired destiny.

You are a barrier breaker . You are destined for greatness

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Don’t Give Up On Your Dream? Dream Again.

Don’t give up on your dream. I say to you ;you destined for greatness. Why do you want to give up today after striving all the years ? Don’t let situation have the final say on your dream ? I encourage you to hear from people for guidelines but weigh them before implementation . It’s not every advice will built you. Some advices grab them . Tell the inner man in you that you destined for better tomorrow. There is no hero without a story. Testimonies are birthed from tests . For you to arrive to that place you need to be refined . The situations around you can act as refinery , preparing you for the next assignment ahead of you . Maybe it is helping you to become a person of integrity .

First write down the vision of your dream . Plan over your dream. What you want to achieve in so so time? Time planning is very important to dreamers. A wise dreamer will never close his/her eyes when dreaming . He /She remains focused whether storm hits him/her . What are stumbling blocks you are facing to achieve that goal? I know you gave yourself time that I would had achieved this and that at so and so time . Nothing is showing up . I encourage you to refresh a bit and after a while go back to the dream. The time of refreshing I call it the time of taking water. Just imagine it’s hot after taking shower you will feel refreshed. You are thirsty the time you will drink water you feel cool and refreshed . No matter how hungry you are the first thing you want its water before taking any meal . You are hungry to make your dream come to pass. First take water to refresh . The water time is the time you give to yourself not even imagining/concentrating on your dream.You shift your mindset to other things for certain period. After the break . Make a come back. You will be having new brains full of ideas and zeal on your dream. The new prescription of medicine to heal your dream will be birthed.

Staying on a thing and seems nothing is happening. It creates fatigue and makes someone to loose hope.I encourage you to go for the water time . Destiny is never built in one day but its process which needs patience and spirit of determination. All you need surround yourself with dreamers . You need people who speak positive of what you want to achieve.

Failure is optional but success is a must.You destined for greatness never give up . Continue climbing the mountain of your dream you will make it to the summit .Think all the years you invested in that dream then small obstacle broke your zeal/morale on your dream and you gave up. Retrace that dream . Being knocked once doesn’t mean you are out of the race.Gather the momentum and rediscover your goals. The Wright brothers took years observing birds flying and they discovered that the legs of birds are hollowed and this helped the Wright brothers to invent an aeroplane.

You are next to be a ground breaker. You will write a new story about your family , community and country for good . Dream again.

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